FAQ about Breakups
Q: What makes you the expert on relationships?
A: I would never call myself an expert, but I have had my heart ripped out and thrown to the ground. It was the worst pain I've ever experienced. I literally couldn't eat (and if you knew me, you'd know I LOVE to eat), and I lost 5 pounds in fact.
I was desperate, so I searched all over the internet for techniques and tactics to winning my ex girlfriend back. I came across some decent information, although most of the advice floating around online was crap. It was was useless stuff that wouldn't help anyone out who is trying to put their life back togher.
Well, I did eventually win my ex back and we fixed our relationship and now we're married. I do attribute it to several pieces of advice that some people do miss, causing them to lose their love forever. I don't want that to happen to you. If you want to make it work, there is a way, and I can show you the best way to do it. I also want to help protect you from the garbage out there so you don't waste your time.
Q: Is there any relief to the pain? It hurts so much!
A: Despite what many people will say, there are only two true ways to get relief. Those are very simple.You can either:
- Get over your ex and move on with your life
- Win your ex back forever
Which one of those choices sounds more appealing to you? The truth is, those are the only ways to really put an end to your pain. There are several methods to alleviate the pain, but by putting energy into those temporary methods you're wasting valuable resources that could be put toward getting rid of it completely. Pick one of the above two choices, and stick with them. The pain will be gone forever.
Q: My ex and I broke up because [insert your issue here], how could we possibly get back together?
A: It doesn't matter what the reason is that you broke up. You have to focus on the fact that you once were together. Think about that for a minute. At one point in time, your ex (whether it's a boyfriend, husband, wife, or girlfriend) adored you. Now [your reason] happened and you are no longer together. Some breakup causes cannot be undone which makes them seem hopeless, but you simply have to get to the core of the problem. For example, one of those most common cases that people think is a deal breaker is cheating. The reasons people get out of a cheating relationship are these:
- They are extremely hurt
- They don't think they can trust you anymore
Therefore, to fix the cheating problem you have to focus on solving those issues. Getting over their pain will take time, but there are ways to accelerate the process (as outlined in several of the courses reviewed here). Renewing your ex's trust in you is the other huge issue that most people leave out. You can't just tell your ex that you've changed. You have to show them. There are several ways to do this as well, as you'll see outlined in the courses.
Q: What do you think about rebound dating? Does it work?
A: If your goal is to move on, then I would actually recommend rebounding with someone else. It's effective for several reason.
- It makes your self esteem and confidence go back up
- It helps take your mind off your ex
- It might even turn into a new, better relationship
- It shows your ex that you weren't that into them
- It really puts your ex to the test. It will help show if they were worth it
However, while it's a great strategy for moving on, you can still do it to some extent if you want to fix things. The main reason for this is number one. It's all about improving your confidence and self esteem.
Well, that's all for now.
If you have any more questions not answered here, or need some advice, or just want someone to talk to, feel free to e-mail me at my personal e-mail. Believe me, I want to help you get your ex back.
mr.marksinclair [at] gmail dot com
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